Trust Your Own Decisions Without Asking Anyone First
You haven't lost your confidence, you've stopped collecting the proof that you can rely on yourself.
Sunday 22 November
60 minutes, live on Zoom
Save your seat
Free. 60 minutes on Zoom. The link comes by email.
You can volunteer for the hot seat when we begin. No camera needed unless you volunteer.
By registering, you agree to receive workshop emails and future self-trust resources, news and offers from Becoming Her Again. Unsubscribe at any time. No replay is included.
One decision you've been sitting on for more than two weeks, and the name of the person you'd normally run it past before you choose.
One Trust Token to test this week, and proof of whether your hesitation was evidence or just emotion.
What happens in the hour
- Spot the PatternYou name who you'd normally ask about your stalled decision, and how long you've waited. The pattern shows itself in one sentence.
- Evidence Over EmotionOn screen, we split one decision into two columns: what you feel, and what you know. You check which column you've actually been deciding from.
- Trust TokenYou write one promise to yourself, small enough to definitely keep this week. That kept promise becomes your proof.
The hot seat (18 minutes)
One volunteer, invited at the start of the workshop, brings a real decision she's stalling on. Dee runs the Loop on it live, on screen, so you watch the pattern get named and the two columns pull apart. You don't need to volunteer: most people recognise their own decision in hers within a minute.
This is for you if
- You’re a woman entrepreneur or run your own business, but find yourself asking three people before trusting your own decision.
- You keep putting off raising your prices, sharing your offer or setting a boundary because you’re worried about getting it wrong.
- You know what you want to do, but someone else’s opinion leaves you questioning yourself all over again.
It's not for you if
- You want someone else to tell you what to decide.
- You want a quick fix with no follow-through.
Dee Shepherd
Founder, Becoming Her Again
Dee has spent around 20 years coaching people through decisions and fear.
She's based in Glasgow and built the Self-Trust Loop from the same pattern she kept seeing: confident at work, unsure everywhere else.
"I've been coached a lot... the framing of the questions, that was genius... You do it in a way that is genuinely interested in the other human being."
Jennifer Elaine, on your coaching approach
"This is presenting itself to me because it's something that I need to decide to break... Thank you for giving me a lot of perspective and being honest with me. I really, really appreciate that."
Lexi Cruz, on perspective and honesty
Bring the decision you've been sitting on. Leave with the proof.
Sun 22 Nov · 18:30 GMT · 60 minutes on Zoom
Save my seat →